Status Updates From Land of Ghosts

I get it's just EL James' writing, but some of how the FMC's uncle Dylan speaks, and especially how the FMC reacts to it reminds me so much of Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey. I had to look up the synopsis to confirm who the love interest actually is. It's not Dylan, but still, his girlfriend Lulu's odd jealousy over the niece doesn't help.

I’m a little worried about the feelings I’m developing for a ghost