Status Updates From Voicing the Dead

I've been trying to read the things I don't like in this book as "tongue in cheek" or something, but i am more than a bit over it and the masculinity comment on p271 has made me realise I am making all these excuses for a man making me feel uncomfortable and I am not owning my real feelings which is...yuck. I'm nearly finished so I will finish but this is disappointing...