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So many good fights in this book. “She was leaving him.”

I. Hate. Frank.

Oh, the sheer, predictable banality of Frank Wheeler.
Just as the "Paris Plan" dies and April withdraws into a ghostly, silent version of herself, Frank doesn’t respond with empathy or reflection. Instead, he seeks out narcissistic supply from Maureen Grube, the secretary at Knox who thinks he’s brilliant simply because he can put a few sentences together.

April’s lack of forgiveness is the most honest thing in the book. She realizes that Frank’s "love" is conditional—he loves the April who makes him feel like a hero, but he hates the April who demands he actually be one.

Betrayal of the Shared Self—April has lost her partner in crime. Frank has used the baby as a way to chicken out on their plan to go to Paris. She didn’t want to go without him. Now she doesn’t forgive him and doesn’t want to live with him.

“I love you when you’re nice.”