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I read this three times and kept saying wow, this describes my past.

However, once they calm down, they become flooded with positive memories and are then overcome with regret.
They reach out to their partner in an attempt to reconcile.
But they are often met with a hostile response, because avoidants react differently to a fight. They turn off all attachment-related memories and remember the worst of their partner.