Status Updates From Dit is vernederend

Really interesting

For each of them the shaming "occurred on a scale so extreme, so bizarre and so frequent that one cannot fail to see that the men who occupy the extreme end of the continuum of violent behavior in adulthood occupied an equally extreme end of the continuum of violent child abuse earlier in life."

So they grew up and--"all violence being a person's attempt to replace shame with self-esteem"--they murdered people.