Status Updates From Boundaries in Dating

Talks about being honest the first time around so you have a strong foundation. scrutinize yourself more than your date for spiritual maturity and pursue God rather than pursuing the same spiritual level.

many people with boundary problems overstep their bounds and don’t know when to stop giving of themselves: this is me!!! i feel so drained but it’s because i give so much without receiving much back

“if someone else is controlling your love, emotions, or values, they are not the problem. your inability to set limits on their control is the problem” it’s easy to point fingers at someone else but very rarely do we look inwards towards ourselves. a lack of boundaries gives others access to walk all over you and it may not be right for them to but if the light is green cars will go

chapter 1: this is an overview of boundaries. what stood out to me was “when we don’t have clear limits we can expose ourselves to unhealthy and destructive influences and people”. i think when i am at my lowest is when i am not protecting my heart which leads me to make bad decisions, i can understand how not having boundaries can lead to unwanted outcomes

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