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Wow

how cruel i was to myself.
giving you credit for my warmth simply because you had felt it.
thinking it was you who gave me strength. wit. beauty.
simply because you recognized it.
as if i was already not these things before i met you.
as if i did not remain all these once you left.

i didn’t leave

because I stopped loving you

i left because the longer

i stayed the less

i loved myself

every time you
tell your daughter
you yell at her
out of love
you teach her to confuse
anger with kindness
which seems like a good idea
til she grows up to
trust men who hurt her
cause they look so much
like you

I forgot how much I loved this book in 2014 😭