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Malcolm
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bell hooks is low key a pick me (lol), but I’m agreeing with a lot of what she’s covered so far nonetheless.
— Apr 30, 2026 08:03PM
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Vanity La’Gail
is on page 29 of 208
Much better.
I appreciate the knowing that while loving can help, the work must be done by one to learn the art of loving and when under a system that tells men that loving is weak , etc etc… ya know.
She doesn’t tell you to accept abuse, what I’m getting is to gain understanding and be loving because they system needs to be dismantled by men whw know how to love.
— Apr 30, 2026 12:42PM
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I appreciate the knowing that while loving can help, the work must be done by one to learn the art of loving and when under a system that tells men that loving is weak , etc etc… ya know.
She doesn’t tell you to accept abuse, what I’m getting is to gain understanding and be loving because they system needs to be dismantled by men whw know how to love.
Vanity La’Gail
is on page 20 of 208
Perhaps because it’s 2026…
Some of this feels outdated so far. Or maybe I’m not the wounded woman/girl , so it doesn’t apply
— Apr 30, 2026 12:11PM
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Some of this feels outdated so far. Or maybe I’m not the wounded woman/girl , so it doesn’t apply
Vanity La’Gail
is on page 13 of 208
She says that men must be willing to change, but a few pages back said it’s not that they aren’t willing to.
I’m assuming following the first statement that she may mean that it’s because patriarchy keeps them from knowing themselves meaning they don’t know how to change … ?
— Apr 30, 2026 11:52AM
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I’m assuming following the first statement that she may mean that it’s because patriarchy keeps them from knowing themselves meaning they don’t know how to change … ?
