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"It is a message that women are given over and over, that we are the holders of the emotional life and health of the family. That the emotion responsibility of a man to change, lies in fact, with us. The only way I can describe it is that part of me died and part of me was ignited, in terms of like "my love will heal us, but I had to stop loving myself and only love him"

🐥 "I remember saying to him on so many occasions when he would claim I wasn't listening to him that indeed I was listening, what I was doing was disagreeing"