Status Updates From Beyond the Gender Binary

“Rather than celebrating people who express themselves on their own terms, we repress them. This repression is something we first did to ourselves. We know how to do it so well to other people because we were the first testing grounds. We silenced our own differences, subdued our creativity, and toned down our own gender non-conformity in order to fit in....”

“That’s the thing about being an LGBTQIA+ kid—you often don’t have the luxury to come into yourself on your own terms because other people have made up their minds for you.”

“Gender non-conformity is seen as something immature, something we have to grow out of to become adults.”

“The assumption is that being a masculine man or a feminine woman is normal and that being us is an accessory. Like if you remove our clothing, our makeup, and our pronouns, underneath the surface we are just men and women playing dress up.

The scrutiny on our bodies distracts us from what’s really going on here: control. The emphasis on our appearance distracts us from the real focus: power.”

“I do not have the luxury of being. I am only seen as doing. As if my gender is something that is being done to them and not something that belongs to me.”

Tw for Transphobia ⚠️
(I’m on page 11 on a PDF version of this book.)
“To Tennessee trying to bar us (trans folk) from accessing public spaces, including highways, schools and parks; to Texas proposing financial compensation for reporting us using the restroom”
This is the first I’m hearing of all this, WTF?? I wish I could say I’m surprised, but unfortunately I’m not.

On hold.