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Ch8, death. The ultimate fear, but fearing it doesn't make sense. It's inevitable, we cant feel it, you don't worry about the emptiness before your life, & in an attempt to avoid it, we pursue often ego-driven immortality projects that can cause good things, but also war. We should regularly confront death to remind ourselves that life is finite & make the most of our time, like the Mexicans. He lists an exercise

Ch7, failure. Museum of failed products seems interesting- most brands don't hold onto their failures & go there to see their own. You obviously need to embrace failure for success, but there are plenty who did that & never succeeded (survivorship bias). Europe celebrates failure, America doesn't. Failure is grounding, honest, & healthy- just an indicator you're not there yet. Success is delusional & uptight

Ch6, trying to chase security makes us feel insecure & unhappy- there is no end. We isolate ourselves, reinforce the ego, & attempt to shut out change in a world that is constantly changing & unstable. African slums seem to be the most happy & secure feeling, whereas the most developed countries are the opposite- it's an inverse relationship. Accept that change is not just inevitable but fundamental to life. Quantumm

Ch5, sense of self, which is intrinsically a recipe for unhappiness. Bits about descartes getting things "completely backwards" according to eckhart tolle, the ego being dependent on compulsive thinking & drama & the future rather than the present, more emphasis on merely observing your thoughts. People are happier to do things that help others than themselves. The line between self and other is impossible to define

Ch4, one year a bunch of businessmen who set out to climb Everest died bc they connected the goal to their identity & disregarded the signs- bad conditions only encouraged them more. Some goals are wiser than others, but to prioritize one thing means to sacrifice others, & most successful entrepreneurs just go with the flow & do what they can w their current means instead of trying to force anything.