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"You must. You must live in this world and know that its a changed world because she isn't here any more. So you have to change. The more we love people the more we have to change when they die. If the dead could come back, those who loved them most would seem to them the most changed. Only those who cared nothing would be just the same, because nothing would have happened to them." (p. 194)