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Ashra
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"How can we feel okay claiming asexuality when so many factors make it easy to doubt? And WHEN are we allowed to stop questioning?"
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Ashra
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Paraphrasing but, shouldn't accept someone as ace/trans/gay/etc only because they COULDN'T meet the "normal/expected" metric. Just because a "lack" of desire is there doesn't mean you are "wanting" and it's a harmful expectation !!!!! Asking "but did you try" is silly
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Ashra
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"...my failure of imagination..."
"Other stories were available. I might have seen asexuality as a form of power that makes me IMPERVIOUS in a way others are not..."
"'...I don't feel like I'm missing out on something enjoyable when you're watching your friends crying over a boy or crying over not having a boy.'"
"In her view, being ace is the default. Everything else is extra effort."
— Feb 27, 2026 06:59AM
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"Other stories were available. I might have seen asexuality as a form of power that makes me IMPERVIOUS in a way others are not..."
"'...I don't feel like I'm missing out on something enjoyable when you're watching your friends crying over a boy or crying over not having a boy.'"
"In her view, being ace is the default. Everything else is extra effort."
