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There’s an idea, especially in kids, that happiness is the only acceptable feeling in public, and if we’re not happy at all times, we’ve failed.

We have a natural bias in favor of displaying positive emotions, especially in the US, which translates into a pressure on all of us to seem happy, no matter what. Which often backfires and makes us LESS happy.

The Sapir-Whorf hypothesis (named for a pair of linguists) maintains that the language we speak determines our worldview and even how our minds work. This hearkens back to a 19th century idea that language expresses the spirit of a culture.