Status Updates From Set Boundaries: Agar Hidup ...

"When someone is passive-aggressive, they think something like this: 'I will act out how I feel, but I’ll deny how I feel.' Sometimes when people act in a passive-aggressive manner, they do so unconsciously. [...] When people describe their passive-aggressive behavior, I say, 'So you haven’t communicated your need, but you’ve acted it out?'"

It's interesting how oversharing, talking too much too quickly, etc. can be boundary violations.

"Reframe the way you think about setting boundaries, and that mental shift will help you minimize discomfort." Half the time the advice is just resummarizing that you should reframe something without telling you how. I don't like this format of nesting detail/advice for paragraph subheadings.