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just got back from vancouver so i can get back to reading now :)

haha page 69 of pornography wars

“People find common ground on the issue of pornography, but debates are never about pornography alone. Instead, they reveal a broader nexus of shared assumptions about the social world.”

kink can be therapeutic but don’t replace kink with therapy

is what i got from this chapter

it’s difficult to build a healthy support system when you don’t have one already, so don’t look for them through roleplay. kink is an additive part of a relationship, not the main part

i think i get why people enjoy screaming and crying during kink now. it gives you a safe space to scream and cry about the troubles you experience daily under the guise of roleplay. there’s not much space for us, as young adults, to throw temper tantrums anymore. kink lets you unmask without questioning or judgement. i can appreciate that

accurate portrayals of queer sex my beloved 💕💕

this book makes me feel less alone 😭

this hits so hard, i resonate with a lot of the personal stories from it, although it can read a bit snobby from time to time it has very interesting contents and insights

def read this if u like kink and wanna hear some gorgeous kink stories and the unconventional life of a queer person in canada

just got 5 books from the library were back babyyy