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Mary or Judas
Unrestrained or constantly calculating the cost

Ask not what your spouse can do for you but what you can do for your spouse.

6-you are no longer builder, emotional life on other peoples weaknesses
61-you can replace old patterns of self-defeating behavior with new patterns, new habits of effectiveness, happiness, interest, base relationships
62-that which we obtain to Easley, we are steam to lightly. It is dearness only which gives everything its value Thomas Paine.

61-we cannot open the gate of another, either by argument or by emotional appeal. Marilyn Ferguson
61-you define yourself from within rather than by peoples opinions, or by comparisons to others, wrong and right we’ll have a little to do with being found out
61-you care less about what others think of you you will care more about what others think of themselves in their world, including the relationship with you

58-you can buy a persons hand, but you can’t buy his heart
60-share discuss what you learned with someone else within 48 hours after you learn it
60-as you openly honestly share what you’re learning with others she may be surprised to find that negative labels or perceptions others may have of you tend to disappear those you teach will see you as a change in growing person
60-no one can persuade another to change

51 life by nature is Holly interdependent
51-inter-dependents is a choice. Only independent people can make dependent people cannot choose to become interdependent. They don’t have a character to do it. They don’t own enough of them selves.
54-effectiveness lies in the balance
55-if we don’t continue to invest in improving our own PC, we severely limit our options

50-dependency, such as letting the weaknesses of other people ruin our emotional lives, are feeling victimized by people and events out of our control
50-the dependence problem is a personal maturity issue that has little to do with circumstances even with better circumstances immaturity independence often persist
50-true independence of character in powers is to act rather than be acted a ball