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"The chemistry of being "in love" is powerful. It causes infatuation that is by definition foolish, shallow love [triggering dopamine] . . . the dopamine wears off in 18-36 months and the couple returns to normal hormone levels. Creating a healthy, secure attachment will depend on how much each person has developed his/her sense of selfhood and emotional literacy and grieved their wounds from the past."

"When we are whole and fully accepting, we have the freedom to see and hear what we see and hear, rather than what we should or should not see and hear; the freedom to think and express what we think, rather than what we should or should not think or express; the freedom to feel what we feel, rather than what we should or should not feel . . . "

Very insightful so far

Yeah this is pretty disturbing, to put it lightly…

I love the continued bond between the main character and her girlfriends who she deployed with, and I’m envious lol. When I deployed I was the only woman on my team and that came with challenges. There were 2 other women who I rarely saw while in country and interacted with, but it wasn’t nearly like what is depicted here 😂

Mariana Zapata is at it again with that slow burn. Daaaaaamn