Found this via Dr. Nerdlove, via Captain Awkwars. I was initially sceptical, because "dating advice" is usually fraught with questionable gender ideas, to say the least. Then I read his article on how Masculinity hurts men (
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/mascul...) and I was convinced that he's probably okay. So far, the book seems reasonable, if not quite as "woke" (hate that word) as Captain Awkward.