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Nimitha is on page 191 of 223 of How Children Fail
The true test of intelligence is not how much we know how to do, but how we behave when we don't know what to do.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 183 of 223 of How Children Fail
To a very great degree, school is a place where children learn to be stupid.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 181 of 223 of How Children Fail
Did these people,as he had done,put on this personality deliberately?He became convinced that this was true.Subject peoples both appease their rulers and satisfy some part of their desire for human dignity by putting on a mask,by acting much more stupid&incompetent than they really are,by denying their rulers the full use of their intelligence&ability,by declaring their minds and spirits free of their enslaved bodies
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Nimitha is on page 181 of 223 of How Children Fail
After the war, the author did a good deal of work, in many parts of the world, with subject peoples; but not for some time did he recognize, in the personality of the "good black boy" of many African colonies, or the "good nigger"of the American South, the camp personality adopted during the war by himself and his fellow prisoners. When he first saw the resemblance, he was startled.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 162 of 223 of How Children Fail
Teachers and schools tend to mistake good behavior for good character. What they prize above all else is docility, suggestibility; the child who will do what he is told; or even better, the child who will do what is wanted without even having to be told. They value most in children what children least value in themselves. Small wonder that their effort to build character is such a failure;
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Nimitha is on page 132 of 223 of How Children Fail
Knowledge, learning, understanding, are not linear. They are not little bits of facts lined up in rows or piled up one on top of another. A field of knowledge, whether it be math, English, history, science, music, or whatever, is a territory, and knowing it is not just a matter of knowing all the items in the territory, but of knowing how they relate to, compare with, and fit in with each other
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 85 of 223 of How Children Fail
Children who depend heavily on adult approval may decide that, if they can't have total success, their next-best bet is to have total failure. Perhaps, in using the giving or withholding of approval as a way of making children do what we want, we are helping to make these deliberate failers.
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Nimitha is on page 75 of 223 of How Children Fail
most children in school are scared most of the time, many of them very scared. Like good soldiers, they control their fears, live with them, and adjust themselves to them. But the trouble is, and here is a vital difference between school and war, that the adjustments children make to their fears are almost wholly bad, destructive of their intelligence and capacity.
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Nimitha is on page 75 of 223 of How Children Fail
fear destroys intelligence, the way it affects a child's whole way of looking at, thinking about, and dealing with life.
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Nimitha is on page 73 of 223 of How Children Fail
The good thinker can take his time because he can tolerate uncertainty, he can stand not knowing. The poor thinker can't stand not knowing; it drives him crazy.
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Nimitha is on page 72 of 223 of How Children Fail
It seems as if what we call intelligent children feel that the universe can be trusted even when it does not seem to make any sense, that even when you don't understand it you can be fairly sure that it is not going to play dirty tricks on you.
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Nimitha is on page 72 of 223 of How Children Fail
Intelligent children act as if they thought the universe made some sense. They check their answers and their thoughts against common sense, while other children, not expecting answers to make sense, not knowing what is sense, see no point in checking, no way of checking.
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Nimitha is on page 71 of 223 of How Children Fail
One thing we see in our intelligent children is that they are intensely involved with life.
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Nimitha is on page 71 of 223 of How Children Fail
We should clear up this distinction, show them that it is possible to know very few facts, but make very good use of them. Conversely, one can know many facts and still act stupidly. The learned fool is by no means rare in this country.
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Nimitha is on page 70 of 223 of How Children Fail
Is not most adult praise of children a kind of self-praise?
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Nimitha is on page 68 of 223 of How Children Fail
We must set a limit to the tension that we put children under. If we don't, they will set their own limits by not paying attention, by fooling around, by saying unnecessarily, "I don't get it."
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Nimitha is on page 65 of 223 of How Children Fail
They said they were afraid of failing, afraid of being kept back, afraid of being called stupid, afraid of feeling themselves stupid. Stupid.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 63 of 223 of How Children Fail
Of course we should protect a child, if we can, from a diet of unbroken failure. More to the point, perhaps, we should see that failure is honorable and constructive, rather than humiliating. Perhaps we need a semantic distinction here, between non-success and failure.
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Nimitha is on page 50 of 223 of How Children Fail
Children in school are like children at the doctor's. He can talk himself blue in the face about how much good his medicine is going to do them; all they think of is how much it will hurt or how bad it will taste. Given their own way, they would have none of it.
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Nimitha is on page 47 of 223 of How Children Fail
A teacher in class is like a man in the woods at night with a powerful flashlight in his hand. Wherever he turns his light, the creatures on whom it shines are aware of it, and do not behave as they do in the dark. Thus the mere fact of his watching their behavior changes it into something very different. Shine where he will, he can never know very much of the night life of the woods.
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Nimitha is on page 44 of 223 of How Children Fail
The really able thinkers in our class turn out to be, without exception, children who don't feel so strongly the need to please grownups. Some of them are good students, some not so good; but good or not, they don't work to please us, but to please themselves.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 44 of 223 of How Children Fail
After all I have said and written about the need for keeping children under pressure, I find myself coming to realize that what hampers their thinking, what drives them into these narrow and defensive strategies, is a feeling that they must please the grownups at all costs.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 34 of 223 of How Children Fail
Part of being a good student is learning to be aware of the state of one's own mind and the degree of one's own understanding. The good student may be one who often says that he does not understand, simply because he keeps a constant check on his understanding. The poor student, who does not, so to speak, watch himself trying to understand, does not know most of the time whether he understands or not.
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Nimitha
Nimitha is on page 21 of 223 of How Children Fail
But there is a more important sense in which almost all children fail: Except for a handful, who may or may not be good students, they fail to develop more than a tiny part of the tremendous capacity for learning, understanding, and creating with which they were born and of which they made full use during the first two or three years of their lives.
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