Denise みか Hutchins’s Reviews > Modern Brides & Modern Grooms: A Guide to Planning Straight, Gay, and Other Nontraditional Twenty-First-Century Weddings > Status Update

This book is causing revelation after revelation in my planning mind. It's taking so much stress and pressure away just by changing my ideas and making me feel it's ok to do things differently.

"Our society tends to police or punish (or exploit) all things feminine." It's true and I hate it. I'm learning to reject it.

"Dream Hostage Negotiation" I totally get this; I've been having to do it all year. Thinking about it this way makes me feel better about my decisions; they weren't losses, just negotiated results. Dream dream wedding and actual dream wedding don't have to match.

This book is so interesting I often forget I bought it to help me plan my wedding. It feels like anyone could read this and enjoy or benefit from it regardless of their relationship status.