Jasper van Loo’s Reviews > Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto > Status Update

“But there was also something else: I didn’t want to give others the opportunity to explain my sexuality to me. Telling people I was confused and questioning did just that. The last thing I needed was another gay man pedantically saying, “You’re definitely gay sweetie,” then trying to kiss me. Like I would prefer you didn’t use my confusion and vulnerability to take sexual advantage of me.”