Lillian’s Reviews > Free: Coming of Age at the End of History > Status Update

Ch. 22- The Point is To Change It: Albanian dads love hitting their daughters with “what do you know about ____?”

Guys Im shocked tho- “I travelled to Italy on a boat that sailed over thousands of drowned bodies, bodies that once carried souls more hopeful than mine, but who met fates less fortunate. I never returned.” What a sharp way to end a narrative about Albania!

Ch. 21- 1997: you think the dictatorship was bad then u get the government regime change and thats bad and then u get the pyramid schemes and anarchy of 1997 and youre like woah! the worst of times.

Ch. 20- Like The Rest of Europe: ironic how a chapter with this title ends in the Albanian civil war.

Ch. 19- Dont Cry: Appreciate the nuance here within the dad being against the former communist dictator regime but having cried when the World Bank told him to fire the Roma port employees for “economic efficiency.”

Ch. 17- the Crocodile: WESTERN MAN OVERWHELMED BY ALBANIAN CULTURE WHAT DOESNT KILL U MAKES U STRONGER MY GUY what he experienced (hated) in his 40s was me when i was 11 visiting for the first time

The real chapter 16- “its all part of civil society”: really cool reading about how frivolous and exploitative civil society seems from western intervention in a dif country

Ch. 16- I Always Carried a Knife: Lovedddd observing the sexist gender dichotomy between her parents. Her father, the philosophical feminist who refused to do domestic labor, and her mother, who refused solidarity with other women and never saw herself as a victim of patriarchy when she really was, as two complicit pieces. Albanian distrust in institutions disempowered women from collectivization. Wow.

Ch. 14- Competitive Games: the discussion of this chapter with my family led me to know that my family is split between democratic dissidents on my maternal grandparents’ side and staunch communists on my paternal grandparents’ side. unraveling my heritage is what i sought to do w this book so im happy