Luis Esteban’s Reviews > Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy > Status Update
Luis Esteban
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“our relationship with siblings or close friends can function as some of the most important attachment bonds that we have. For many a friend or a sibling can serve as a primary attachment figure.”
— Jul 18, 2025 07:45AM
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Luis Esteban
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“the word trauma comes from the Greek word wound”
i wonder if there was a mythologized goddess of siren of trauma in the pantheon
— Jul 15, 2025 12:38PM
i wonder if there was a mythologized goddess of siren of trauma in the pantheon
Luis Esteban
is 22% done
Need books to just @ me next time
“Due to their history of trauma, their sense of self and others have been impaired. When trauma occurs, there is a rupture with the foundational relationship a person has with their self.”
— Jul 15, 2025 12:04PM
“Due to their history of trauma, their sense of self and others have been impaired. When trauma occurs, there is a rupture with the foundational relationship a person has with their self.”
Luis Esteban
is 10% done
“when we deactivate our attachment system, we suppress our attachment based longing not because we don’t still want closeness and connection, but in order to adapt and survive.”
— Jul 08, 2025 09:16AM
Luis Esteban
is 5% done
I have experienced the power of love to heal, to bridge, to connect and to awaken, as well as the trauma that ensues in its absence
— Jul 07, 2025 08:07PM
