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Jia
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“there are better things to be than good.” that hits right now—i always felt like i had to be good for the people around me in this new normal i’ve found myself in.
— Aug 01, 2025 03:21PM
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Jia
is on page 334 of 368
i’m SCREAMING at this “because stifling trauma is just good manners.” i don’t know why this is so funny to me 😭
— Sep 28, 2025 04:23PM
Jia
is on page 285 of 368
“i sometimes feel like maybe some more worthy victims space is being taken up by my 20-year-old troubles, that i should be able to manage this by myself rather than gobbling up much needed and sparse resources because of my inability to move on.” GIRL SAME 😭😭
— Sep 28, 2025 02:34PM
Jia
is on page 271 of 368
this essay hurt to read. like i felt genuine emotional pain trying to finish this. it is so hard to be a person trying to survive being around your abuser in a picture-perfect Black Family.
— Sep 28, 2025 02:08PM
Jia
is 13% done
that “it’s not like he raped you” hit way too close to home. 😅
— Jul 30, 2025 05:30PM
