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I’m so bored I could cry. I had two close friends, and then over the span of just a couple of months both of them ghosted me 💀
And now? I’m left clutching my loneliness like it’s a designer bag, distracting myself with sloppy, trashy Bollywood movies. If that isn’t peak tragic-heroine energy, I don’t know what is. Honestly, my life has become a masterpiece of loneliness… with a generous side of melodrama.
Sep 07, 2025 07:48AM

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message 2: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "Wuh??? ;("

Yup! I’m seriously so tired of being emotionally invested in friendships, only to watch people leave—and it hurts even more when they don’t give any reason or show the courtesy of letting you know before leaving 😑


message 3: by ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ (last edited Sep 07, 2025 10:20AM) (new)

 ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ Abhilasha (semi-hiatus) wrote: " ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "Wuh??? ;("

Yup! I’m seriously so tired of being emotionally invested in friendships, only to watch people leave—and it hurts even more when they don’t give any..."


These are just blessings my friend.. Be grateful for them and embrace it.. You don't want that type of energy surrounding you anyway.. This is the universe removing them before you have to go through the trouble of doing it yourself..

Do not breathe another thread of validation into these toxic energy sucker(s).. Be thankful for it. They are not worthy to sit at your table, and they threw themselves out; into the trash, for you..

(Hugs)


message 4: by Matthew (new)

Matthew Cross @ Abhilasha, I'm so sorry to hear this 💛


message 5: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "These are just blessings my friend.. Be grateful for them and embrace it.. You don't want that type of energy surrounding you anyway.. This is the universe removing them before you have to go through the trouble of doing it yourself.."

Thank you so much for saying this ❤️ It really puts things into perspective. I never thought about it this way.
‘... they threw themselves out; into the trash, for you’—ngl, that made me laugh. Today has been really depressing (though my life is depressing in general lol, but still, today has been really heavy), so thank you so much. Your words honestly feel like a little light in all the heaviness, and I really appreciate you being here for me.


message 6: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha Matthew wrote: "@ Abhilasha, I'm so sorry to hear this 💛"

I appreciate your concern, thank you so much! 💛


 ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ Abhilasha wrote: " ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "These are just blessings my friend.. Be grateful for them and embrace it.. You don't want that type of energy surrounding you anyway.. This is the universe remo..."

You are so very welcome! These are things that I truly believe and know to be fact, through my own personal growth through such things.. You are not alone.. And trust me, you are protected from such crazy circumstances, when things like this happen.

It truly is a blessing when dead things, remove themselves from our personal space without us having to lift an emotional or mental finger. Our mental, emotional, spiritual and physical bodies are sacred.. They need to be protected from such chaos..


message 8: by Mary ♥ (new)

Mary ♥ Sorry hun, people can be so shitty. I'll never understand ghosting...


message 9: by bruna (new)

bruna so sorry to hear this, sweetie 😣 but let's look at the brighter side - you got rid of people who don't deserve you and your energy. i know it's tough to be ghosted by people you thought that were your friends, but trying to see things from other perspective can make you feel better. you didn't lost them, they lost you! good friends will come around 🩷 sending you all my love and warmest hugs x


ʚ turtle ɞ (v. busy) Aww, I’m so sorry to hear that, ml! 💌 But honestly? Good riddance to people who can’t appreciate you! You deserve so much better!!! Hopefully, better things and better people are coming your way. 🫶🏼✨


message 11: by Matthew (new)

Matthew Cross Abhilasha wrote: "Matthew wrote: "@ Abhilasha, I'm so sorry to hear this 💛"

I appreciate your concern, thank you so much! 💛"



you're very welcome 💛


message 12: by yuvi • ia (new)

yuvi • ia Dw, gg. Main hoon na:)
Good riddance, I'd say


Liv {Semi ia⋅˚୨୧} Aw I’m so sorry but this is literally me


lucy grace ౨ৎ aw I'm so sorry babes 😭💗 dm me anytime


🌺 Hannah 🌺 Sending you lots of love and positive vibes bb!! 💖💖🫂


Persephone's Pomegranate It's frustrating when this occurs, but believe me, it might just be a hidden blessing. They clearly weren't true friends, and there's nothing worse than investing your time and energy in those who are insincere. I'm confident you'll encounter individuals who truly deserve your time and are genuinely good people.


message 18: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "Abhilasha wrote: " ~*~Princess Nya Vasiliev~*~ wrote: "These are just blessings my friend.. Be grateful for them and embrace it.. You don't want that type of energy surrounding you anyway.. This is..."

Thank you so much for sharing this 💛 It truly warms my heart, and your words are so comforting. You’re right—our energy and well-being are precious, and it’s such a relief when negativity removes itself without us having to struggle. Grateful for your wisdom and the gentle reminder to honor ourselves in every way 🌿✨


message 19: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha Mary ♥ wrote: "Sorry hun, people can be so shitty. I'll never understand ghosting..."

I know right 😔 People can be so thoughtless… thank you so much for understanding 🩷


message 20: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha bruna wrote: "so sorry to hear this, sweetie 😣 but let's look at the brighter side - you got rid of people who don't deserve you and your energy. i know it's tough to be ghosted by people you thought that were y..."

Aww, thank you so much 🥺💖 Your words really mean a lot right now. It’s still a bit hard, but I’m trying to focus on the brighter side and remind myself that I deserve people who truly value me. I really appreciate your love and support—it honestly makes me feel so much better. Sending you the biggest, coziest hugs imaginable 🩷✨💫🩷


message 21: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha ʚ turtle ɞ wrote: "Aww, I’m so sorry to hear that, ml! 💌 But honestly? Good riddance to people who can’t appreciate you! You deserve so much better!!! Hopefully, better things and better people are coming your way. 🫶🏼✨"

You’re really sweet! 🥺 Thank you so much, that really means a lot 🩷 I’m definitely hoping for brighter days and amazing people ahead! 🤞🧚‍♀️


message 22: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha yuvi wrote: "Dw, gg. Main hoon na:)
Good riddance, I'd say"


I’m so incredibly glad I met you here 💖


message 23: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha Liv {It’s Sweater Weather ₊˚. 🎧 ✩。☕ 🤎} wrote: "Aw I’m so sorry but this is literally me"

I'm sorry to hear that you're in the same boat. Hopefully, things will get better for both of us soon 🤞


message 24: by Shi (new)

Shi  - Jesus is my savior 💕 I'm sorry that truly is sad


message 25: by Abhilasha (new)

Abhilasha Ashlynn wrote: "im srry😞"

Thank you, i appreciate your concern! Hopefully things get better soon 🤞


alfz♡ (aprilxsprings) been experiencing the same for the past few months but got into some hobbies to keep my mind engaged & went through a phase of self-discovery. Now i no longer feel lonely rather i enjoy my company more than anyone else's. Hope it gets better for you too 💕


message 27: by yuvi • ia (new)

yuvi • ia Abhilasha wrote: "yuvi wrote: "Dw, gg. Main hoon na:)
Good riddance, I'd say"

I’m so incredibly glad I met you here 💖"


💖 💖 💖
Yayyayay. Me tooo. Ily


message 28: by Parthiba (new)

Parthiba Oh Girl!I can feel you.I Never had a friend whom i could call my bestie and I'm 21 and i get you! Sometimes i don't think anyone will marry me or maybe i will die alone!and even tho my family is Great,i think sometimes they don't understand me!So yeah i also watch these Bollywood movies and cry all night!So we are here:) Surviving


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