Zeni Perez’s Reviews > I Want This to Work: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating the Most Difficult Relationship Issues We Face in the Modern Age > Status Update
Zeni Perez
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Instead of criticizing, state your needs. Take responsibility, self-soothe, & heal past hurts. Hurtful convos come up when you’re disconnected, holding onto something, stressed, aren’t curious, or under the influence.
— Sep 19, 2025 12:52PM
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Zeni Perez
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Clarity, apology, & plan to fix an issue. A true apology has responsibility, remorse, reflection, repair, & request. You have to make the other person feel heard to know what to apologize for- what hurt them
— Sep 23, 2025 01:45PM
Zeni Perez
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Regulate your nervous system or else a constructive conversation can’t happen
— Sep 19, 2025 02:29PM
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Be open & receptive to your partner. Assuming their feelings or thoughts creates disconnection
— Sep 17, 2025 03:04PM
Zeni Perez
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Boundaries help couples from fusing together where one person is compensating and the other doesn’t realize how much they’re taking
— Sep 12, 2025 01:44PM
