marlene’s Reviews > Women Living Deliciously > Status Update

"How can I be annoyed at minor inconveniences, when itsa blessing to just be here?!"

"Do something small and beautiful and kind and don't tell anyone about it."

"Sometimes someone is literally looking for a reason to live. Someone is looking for a reason to feel good. And we get to give it to them. With a smile. With a compliment. By paying for their coffee. That person might have been asking the universe for a sign to keep going."

"The "world" isn't some vague concept. The "world" is just people. And you are "people".
You are a stranger who thousands of people will interact with in this lifetime. You have the power to leave the world a better place. Kindness is contagious. You can be the reason someone goes home smiling today, sighing in relief that the world isn't so bad after all."

It is odd that society admires those who appear physically exhausted and debilitated by their work ethic, despite usually being healthy and energetic, more than those who actually prioritize their rest and are able to contribute a hell of a lot more from this abundance!
We need to flip the script.

"Floss will get it done, she always does!" is something that someone has actually said about me in the middle of a meeting about whether or not a very tight deadline I had was manageable. After feeling the initial intense frustration at this person, I realized it was not their fault (...) because I had never said "NO" to work. I was not the "victim" of my busyness, but the architect.

"But how can I feel joy without guilt?"
Your joy and relaxation is not
"selfish", because it also belongs to every single person you share your life with.
It is generous for you to love the shit out of your life. Where has pleasing others out of exhaustion got you?