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السلام عليكم 💞
I jut wanted to tell you that you’re definitely not alone in this ❤️And a couple of years ago I used to find it pretty hard because I didn’t have a lot of friends and I was alone and even now but I realized that I’d rather have a couple of friends that genuinely cared about me ,when I hung out with them I feel good and that brought me close to my religion, it took me a while but the goal is not to have a hundred friends even if it might seem better or more fun but to me it’s have those 2-3 people where I know I can count on them :) it’s normal for friendships to find different paths and it will continue on happening in your life and while you feel sad and find it hard remember that Allah سبحانه وتعالى has something better for you and maybe he’s testing you and who knows maybe in a couple of years Allah سبحانه وتعالى will grant you the best of friends in your life in’shaa’Allah ❤️you can always make Dua for good quality friends I remember during that time finding comfort in Quran and making dua it made me feel like I wasn’t alone and I know that Allah سبحانه وتعالى will never leave me as long as I keep putting First first , nothing is impossible for Him so don’t be shy to ask him about anything anyways just letting you know that if you’re even in need to talk or to make new friends i’m always open to get to you more 💕

absolutely! i've felt like this at times, too. i know it's hard. i hope you'll get amazing friends, insha'Allah 💗

دودو wrote: "السلام عليكم 💞
I jut wanted to tell you that you’re definitely not alone in this ❤️And a couple of years ago I used to find it pretty hard because I didn’t have a lot of friends and I was alone and..."

@دودو i love this comment <3

Assalamu Alaikum🌷🌸
I could probably not relate more. The last couple of years I haven't had any close friends and at first I used to have so much breakdown and feel almost depressed so often, going to school and coming back without talking with anyone about anything other than school-related stuff. But you know what, during this time I saw many 'friendships' where they worked so hard to make each other jealous, or to show off, etc. And I actually saw that me not having any friends is a blessing from Allah. Because I definitely don't want to have friends like them.
So I would recommend spending this time to get closer to Allah, and make lots of Dua. Also, having few friends who are true nice friends, is much much better than having lots of toxic friends.
insha'Allah you'll get amazing friends soon who will remind you of Allah and with whom you'll bring each other closer to Allah. ❤️🫂

Salam walaykum sis - if I don’t have you added please be sure to send me a request. I feel the same way. Honestly, Alhamdulilah my friend circle is small, and sometimes (or well most of the time) it can be hard for us to hang out because we’re all busy with school work and just daily life. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way.
I’ll make a ton of dua for you - and wouldn’t mind becoming your friend too 🫂🫂🫶🏻

دودو wrote: "السلام عليكم 💞
I jut wanted to tell you that you’re definitely not alone in this ❤️And a couple of years ago I used to find it pretty hard because I didn’t have a lot of friends and I was alone and..."


وعليكم السلام ❤️❤️

Thank you so much for this and I'm glad you also relate (you know what I mean) and its not just a problem I have and you're so right about just have a few genunine close firneds that bring you up and bring you closer to your deen. You're also right that friendships go on diffrent paths and things change and maybe Allah was trying to protect me from something in that friendship that I didnt know about. I really appricate this and you sound like such a great personn 🩷🩷🩷

maryam مريم wrote: "absolutely! i've felt like this at times, too. i know it's hard. i hope you'll get amazing friends, insha'Allah 💗"

Thank you soo much 🩷🩷, inshallah we will all get good friends that will lead us on the right path

Zeynep زينب wrote: "Assalamu Alaikum🌷🌸
I could probably not relate more. The last couple of years I haven't had any close friends and at first I used to have so much breakdown and feel almost depressed so often, goin..."

Wa Alaikum Asalam🌸🩷

Thank you so much for thisss. You're so right, usually it seems like people have many friends, but when they really need someone, they can't seem to find someone true for them, and a lot of people are just friends that are just trying to do bad things to each other, just like what you said. I think you're so right when you say its better to have few friends that actually care about you than having so many friends. Thank you sooo much for this and inshallah we will all have good friends that will actually care for us and bring us closer to allah.

KHATÚN wrote: "Salam walaykum sis - if I don’t have you added please be sure to send me a request. I feel the same way. Honestly, Alhamdulilah my friend circle is small, and sometimes (or well most of the time) i..."


Wa Alaikum Asalam🌸🩷

Thank you so much, I am also in the same situation and can't always hang out with some of my close friends, and thank youu, inshallah we will have good friends! You sound like a great person 🩷🩷