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“Happiness becomes a weakness because it leaves you defenceless in the face of grief. It is a testament to my parents that each of the six us feels individually, intimately, known and loved. And so we mourn differently. Yet ‘people mourn differently’ is easy for the intellect to absorb, but for the heart it is much harder. ”

— 18 hours, 36 min ago

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“I am writing about my father in the past tense, and I cannot believe I am writing about my father in the past tense.”

— 16 hours, 35 min ago

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“We don’t know how we will grieve until we grieve”

— 16 hours, 37 min ago

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“Does love bring, even if unconsciously, the delusional arrogance of expecting never to be touched by grief?”

— 18 hours, 37 min ago

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“Grief was the celebration of love, those who could feel real grief were lucky to have loved.’ How odd to find it so exquisitely painful to read my own words.”

— 18 hours, 38 min ago