Fae’s Reviews > Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar > Status Update

“What do you need to do to convince yourself that someone might see you as a lover instead of a friend? How might you shut down your impulse to shut down?”

“Go! Go! Go! Do you need it one more time, darling? GO. (…) I know too many people who didn’t do those things. They ended up kingly, shrink-wrapped versions of the people they intended to be.”

“…you’re consumed by the grandiose ideas you have about your own importance. You’re up to high and down too low. Neither is the place where we get any work done.”

“…get your ass down to the floor (…) nobody is going to give you a thing. You have to give it to yourself. You have to tell us what you have to say.”