Miftah R. Subhana’s Reviews > The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture > Status Update

That's a pretty solid chapter. Children must get their own needs from parents. Good parenting is pretty challenging, but it is achievable!

There are four basic needs for children like the good attachment with parents, the sense of attachment security, feeling their own emotions safely, and playing to grow up. Sounds unsophisticated, but pretty challenging to do in a real life. Maté provides great insight in Chapter 9