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The only filter that matters when making choices is this: Will it contract who you are or expand who you’re becoming?
— Jan 26, 2026 04:46AM
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Hayden Harris
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Fear no longer controls you the moment you decide that your peace and growth matter more than avoiding what you’re afraid of.
— Jan 28, 2026 04:44AM
Hayden Harris
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The paradox of fear is that avoiding it perpetuates it. Confronting it dissolves it.
— Jan 28, 2026 04:35AM
Hayden Harris
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Freedom will often ask you to disappoint others so that you no longer disappoint yourself.
— Jan 27, 2026 04:48AM
Hayden Harris
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The best thing you can ask from others is their support, not their validation. Their perspective, not their permission.
— Jan 27, 2026 04:43AM
Hayden Harris
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Make decisions based on how you want to feel rather than on what you’re afraid to experience.
— Jan 25, 2026 06:17AM
Hayden Harris
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The reality is that the emotion we make a decision from is the emotion we reinforce.
— Jan 25, 2026 06:14AM
Hayden Harris
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The more you resist or avoid fear, the more you fan the flames of fear itself. Because resistance is still a form of attention, and attention is fuel.
— Jan 25, 2026 06:13AM
Hayden Harris
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if making everyone else happy were the key to your own happiness, wouldn’t it have worked by now?
— Jan 25, 2026 06:06AM
