Veola Barnes’s Reviews > Adult Daughters of Emotionally Absent Fathers: Stop earning love that should've been yours by default, and break the spell that's shaping your love around his rejection > Status Update

“Your wound is your wisdom. Your hunger is your guide. Your healing is someone else's hope.” 👏🏾🥹

“David loves me because he chooses to, not because I've convinced him I'm worth the effort.” 🥹

“Six months after starting my generational trauma research, I finally understand something that Dr. Chen has been trying to help me see: Bob Hart's emotional limitations are about Bob Hart's wounds, not about my worth.” Profound!