Jeslyn Ochoa Bishop ’s Reviews > Living Beyond Offense: Doing the Hard Work of Forgiveness God's Way > Status Update

“ the trouble with the shalom demanding route is that it’s deceptive. While you may believe and feel that you have the upper hand by making yourself the judge of your offender, you have imprisoned yourself. In demanding your offender pay up with an apology or penance, you have robbed yourself of any other pathway for living beyond their offense.”