Patrícia Marques’s Reviews > The Queen's Code > Status Update

Being Single Focused means men do one thing at a time. They put all their attention on that one thing. When a woman asks a question he commits himself to answering that question. He takes it seriously. He goes hunting for the best answer to her question. That takes time.

We assume people know when they have hurt us and that they do not care enough to heal us. More often, folks are unaware of what they have done. If we know that, we can be responsible for getting what we need before the anger builds up and the process of creating bitterness progresses.

(…) women's unconscious behavior is driven by being externally motivated. In other words: responding automatically to the needs and preferences expressed by others. Thus, women keep track of what others expect of them. And adapt without even thinking about it. We assume we adapt because we love them, or respect them, or care about them. But that is not necessarily the case; adapting can be purely instinctive (…)