SHE’s Reviews > It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy > Status Update

“In the end, only you can make you happy.”

“Its time to figure out what you want. Loving yourself and feeling complete isn’t about catching a man—that’s an added bonus that comes later. Your emotional growth and well-being should start with you, not someone else, and it should be for you, not someone else.”

“You are the prize, the sun, the moon, and the stars.”

“We know you may not believe it now, but this breakup is the best thing that ever happened to you because he was not “The One.” So why not dress for the occasion?”

“But you know what? We weren’t put on this planet alone. Sometimes you just have to accept that you don’t have all the answers and that you can’t fix everything.”

“And you know what else I realized? He was not sitting around wondering what I was thinking, feeling, or doing, so why the f*#k was I wasting my time? Sometimes the cold reality is that guys just aren’t thinking about us at all.”

“So if you really want to know what he’s thinking, it’s probably this: He feels bad about hurting your feelings, he misses you sometimes and even thinks of calling, but ultimately he is relieved that it’s over.”

“It’s a harsh reality, but the truth is that he was already partially or even totally over it before you even knew it was going down.”

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“The right guy is out there right now, wondering when he’s going to meet someone like you.”