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Valencia
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I had to audiobook this portion & probably the rest of the book. But interesting stuff. The author wrote in ch 12: “Anyone who has lived through trauma know what it means to submit ourselves to a new normal. We know we can never go back to the people we were before. Trauma transforms, and if we allow it, may become our greatest teacher.”
Made me think of Covid, grief & other things.
— Apr 02, 2026 07:09PM
Made me think of Covid, grief & other things.
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Valencia
is on page 262 of 304
They steal from us, don’t care about our well being, underpay us & expect us to be happy at work. That’s why it’s important to prioritize your personal life over your professional one (in my opinion)
— Apr 04, 2026 09:44AM
Valencia
is on page 215 of 304
A degree doesn’t equal a job. Institutions don’t see us as people, but as products. Code switching. I never thought about how Black people from mono-ethnic countries didn’t experience racism until they got to the US. That’s a culture shock I never really thought of before.
— Apr 03, 2026 07:51PM
Valencia
is on page 180 of 304
I wish I had a similar experience in Malawi. I would’ve loved to connect more with the locals while studying abroad.
Hearing of micro aggressions in spaces that were seemingly safe beforehand… been there, done that & will probably do it again unfortunately :(
— Apr 03, 2026 06:06AM
Hearing of micro aggressions in spaces that were seemingly safe beforehand… been there, done that & will probably do it again unfortunately :(
Valencia
is on page 32 of 304
I can relate to giving problematic coworkers code names. I can also relate to feeling like healthcare is designed to only work for the wealthy. Many Americans cannot afford to get sick. Nor can we afford to take time off from work, which causes the stress that aids in our sickness. Learning that Black women biologically age faster due to stress is something. Is that why my back hurts??
— Dec 03, 2025 08:54PM
Valencia
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Was painfully reminded of what 2020 was like. Strange times for Black women for sure
— Nov 30, 2025 04:30PM

