Meeynz’s Reviews > The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity > Status Update

Wow. These readings are intense, but valuable.

Some men wind up falling into a trope, where they experienced trauma as a child and then that trauma manifests in their romantic relationships and it repulses them from their partners.

Some people make choices in partnerships thinking that it will prevent them from getting hurt. Example going after a nerdy guy, because he would never cheat... we have to look at people holistically and recognize actions above the strict confines and limitations of our own minds. Not putting anything past anyone, but still willing to take a risk..

So far, a good point being made, is to build your community and have a life that doesn't revolve around your partner.