Cece ✿ > Status Update

so I had a big fight with my best friend that may or may not have been a friend breakup, Idk yet. She said a bunch of awful stuff to me, but I’ve been wanting us to make up anyway and asked her if we could chat. She’s barely texted me anything and it’s been six days since our fight. I honestly don’t know what happened or why she doesn’t want to forgive me or say sorry. The fight was mostly her screaming at me over FaceTime, and it came out of nowhere too, we were just talking and then she starting yelling. I don’t even know if I want to be friends with her anymore, she complains all the time, takes out her anger on others, and makes broken promises. She’s also kind of a fake friend, she’ll talk to me about her friends behind their backs and all the things she doesn’t like about them, I don’t really like that and I wonder if she talks about me behind my back too

Has anyone here been through a friend breakup and knows what to do?

I’m sorry! I’ve never had a friend breakup before but I’ll be praying for you! Tho from what you’ve said, it sounds like you need to just walk away if she’s being toxic. No matter how much you care about her, what she’s doing isn’t right.

Tho I do have a friend who has a friend who acts similarly and ended up causing my friend to be sobbing because she hurt her so bad. Yet she refuses to let her go as a friend and it’s hurting her a lot. It’s not a one time thing, there maybe something going on that you don’t know about but that still doesn’t excuse her behavior. The best thing to do for yourself is to walk away. A friend who talks about you behind your back is not a friend. Your friends are supposed to be supportive and build you up, be people you actually want to be around and care about.

@Mildly Mad Hatter, thanks for the advice and prayers!

@Mildly Mad Hatter, yeah she has a lot of stuff going on in her life. Her family has a lot of tension and she’s under a lot of stress and vents to me about it all the time. I want to be there for her, but if she’s taking her anger out on me and I have to act like her therapist, I don’t know if the friendship is worth it. I’m just worried that she’ll have no one to turn to if I unfriend her

@Cece of course!! I hope it helps! Also if you can’t trust her then she’s not a friend, a big part of friendship is trusting each other and letting them into your life.

@Cece that does make it harder but if it’s taking a toll on you then you need to protect yourself. Pray for her but don’t allow her to hurt you. It might be what she needs to get help because you’re not there. Even tho she has problems, what she’s doing still isn’t right and needs to change, you can’t be the one to fix it. It’s up to her.