Isabelle Haeberly’s Reviews > Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love > Status Update
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 251 of 304
“Sometimes understanding the basic biology of attachment helps you prevent conflict before it happens…sometimes we spend less quality time with our partner- especially when other demands on us are pressing… By foregoing closeness with our partners, we are also missing our oxytocin boost- making us less agreeable to the world around us and more vulnerable to conflict.”
— May 05, 2026 09:16PM
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Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 257 of 304
“It’s almost always more effective to assume the ~best~ in conflict situations. In fact, expecting the worst often acts as a self-fulfilling prophecy.”
— May 05, 2026 09:18PM
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 236 of 304
“YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEEDS ARE VALID - PERIOD.”
— May 05, 2026 09:14PM
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 238 of 304
“When people fall in love, they are all but putting their soul in their partner’s hand for safekeeping, and that you both have the responsibility to keep j5 safe and make it prosper.”
— May 04, 2026 07:38PM
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 229 of 304
“People’s response to effective communication is ~always~ very telling.”
“By spelling out your needs, you are making it a lot easier for your partner to meet them.”
— May 03, 2026 08:35PM
“By spelling out your needs, you are making it a lot easier for your partner to meet them.”
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 82 of 304
“She looks back at the whole experience with bewilderment… If only she had met a good guy sooner- one who didn’t continually activate her attachment system- she would have spared herself from the unnecessary scrutiny of her “masochistic borderline personality traits.”
— May 01, 2026 03:53PM
Isabelle Haeberly
is on page 33 of 304
“When our partner is unable to meet our basic attachment needs, we experience a chronic sense of disquiet and tension that leaves us exposed to various ailments.”
— May 01, 2026 03:51PM
