Lauren Urban’s Reviews > Nonbinary: Memoirs of Gender and Identity > Status Update
Lauren Urban
is on page 141 of 286
“I haven’t sat any of my family - immediate or extended - down and said ‘Hi, I’d like you to use they/them pronouns for me’. I don’t generally tell people unless they ask. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about why I haven’t told you, what I’m afraid of, and what is keeping me from this conversation”.
At the time of reading this, my older brother is the only family who knows I go by they/them🫣
— May 06, 2026 12:58PM
At the time of reading this, my older brother is the only family who knows I go by they/them🫣
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Lauren’s Previous Updates
Lauren Urban
is on page 114 of 286
“…even though it is in some ways harder, living outside of gender norms - this in-between masked so much sense to me”
“…when someone “gets it”, and honours the they/them request, it makes me feel seen and understood”
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— May 05, 2026 09:07PM
“…when someone “gets it”, and honours the they/them request, it makes me feel seen and understood”
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Lauren Urban
is on page 63 of 286
I’m literally taking notes in the margins and highlighting impactful paragraphs❤️🩹
— May 01, 2026 09:31PM
