eunice’s Reviews > Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love > Status Update
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Deactivating strategies: any behavior or thought that is used to squelch intimacy and suppress our attachment system (focusing on small imperfections, pining after an ex, flirting with others, checking out mentally, keeping secrets, avoiding physical intimacy)
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Activating strategies: any thoughts or feelings that compel you to get close, physically, or emotionally, to your partner.
Protest behavior: any action that tries to reestablish contact with your partner and get their attention (making them feel jealous, withdrawing, keeping score, acting hostile, threatening to leave, manipulation).
— May 09, 2026 01:18PM
Protest behavior: any action that tries to reestablish contact with your partner and get their attention (making them feel jealous, withdrawing, keeping score, acting hostile, threatening to leave, manipulation).
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Dependency paradox: the more effectively dependent people are on one another, the more independent and daring they become.
— Apr 20, 2026 09:10PM
