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thought i could finish it on the train HAHA

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"It encourages us to step back from the automatic impulse towards resolution in order to look for other ways the conflict might be productive. It sees a disagreement as a sign pointing to something we don't get fully understand and seek learn from it instead of just getting rid of it."

"when you depersonalise a position in an argument, it becomes possible to imagine having other positions, in the same way that you might walk around a room and try sitting in different chairs."