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This book keeps explaining that arguments are really just two people asking ‘do I matter to you?’ in the least effective way possible.
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— Jul 14, 2026 08:30PM
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Johnson notes that children who don’t do their homework put tremendous creativity into excuses. They don’t lack energy; they lack tolerance for discomfort.
She extends that to adults. Some people expend enormous energy not to connect, but to cut off the emotional current to stay emotionally safe. They keep busy, withdraw, or intellectualize.
Adults, like children, use evasion to protect themselves.
— Jul 12, 2026 09:14PM
She extends that to adults. Some people expend enormous energy not to connect, but to cut off the emotional current to stay emotionally safe. They keep busy, withdraw, or intellectualize.
Adults, like children, use evasion to protect themselves.