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Caroline Newbern
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“Total strangers. The kindness of total strangers: the sweet gestures of blind trust and welcome, the common and miraculous somehow made one. It makes me weep. I weep for the great heart of the South, the flawed human heart.”
— Aug 01, 2026 02:54PM
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Caroline Newbern
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“…instead all that I remember is the rare, heart-pounding, brake-squealing lurch to the verge after glimpsing a potential image. My memories are of those euphoric moments of visual revelation, still fluorescing for me like threads in a tapestry in which most other colors have faded, leaving a few brightly, and sometimes wrongly, predominant...”
— Aug 01, 2026 09:59PM
Caroline Newbern
is on page 169 of 482
“know now.
As ephemeral as our footprints were in the sand along the river, so also were those moments of childhood caught in the photographs. And so will be our family itself, our marriage, the children who enriched it, and the love that has carried us through so much. All this will be gone. What we hope will remain are these pictures telling our brief story, but what will last, beyond all of it, is the place.”
— Jul 31, 2026 04:58PM
As ephemeral as our footprints were in the sand along the river, so also were those moments of childhood caught in the photographs. And so will be our family itself, our marriage, the children who enriched it, and the love that has carried us through so much. All this will be gone. What we hope will remain are these pictures telling our brief story, but what will last, beyond all of it, is the place.”
Caroline Newbern
is on page 145 of 482
“To be able to take my pictures I have to look, all the time, at the people and places I care about. And I must do so with both warm ardor and cool appraisal, with the passions of both eye and heart, but in that ardent heart there must also be a splinter of ice.” WOW
— Jul 31, 2026 04:07PM
Caroline Newbern
is on page 131 of 482
About “Immediate Family,” “That's the way many of these pictures evolved, their genesis in a failed image but one that had some rudiment of the eternal in it-like the hair plastered across the ribs, or the V of sky and river with Emmett.
But others came completely spontaneously…” wow, the photographic process is amazing
— Jul 31, 2026 03:19PM
But others came completely spontaneously…” wow, the photographic process is amazing
Caroline Newbern
is on page 87 of 482
“It’s warrior spirit… is a denial of the decision of 1865. The famous femininity of its women-not a myth… is a quality that comes from grandmothers who found a strength their men had lost, learnt to comfort, helped to forget, and never, never said the unsayable thing. Pain is a dimension of old civilizations. The South has it. The rest of the United States does not.” -British historian John Keegan
— Jul 31, 2026 11:27AM
Caroline Newbern
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Oh, so I wasn’t exactly expecting a crazy murder suicide within the first 60 pages of a memoir but holy shit Sally Mann’s writing is laugh out loud funny
— Jul 27, 2026 07:13PM
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Also, “In Wales, for example, Welsh is spoken by barely 20 percent of the popu-lation, so we can only hope that the evocative Welsh word hiraeth will somehow be preserved. It means "distance pain," and I know all about it: a yearning for the lost places of our past, accompanied in extreme cases by tuneful lamentation (mine never got quite that bad). But, and this is important, it always refers to a near-umbilical attachment to a place, not just free-floating nostalgia or a droopy houndlike wistfulness or the longing we associate with romantic love. No, this is a word about the pain of loving a place.Just like us southerners, the Welsh are often depicted as nostalgic and melancholic, their heads stuck in the past while pining for hopelessly lost causes. This attribution was conceived in the eighteenth century, and right from the beginning it was tied to a representation of landscapes: the blind bards of eighteenth-century fables are inseparable from the misty mountains in which they were imagined to strum their harps while giving voice to their birath.”


I stopped whenever I saw something that felt like a photograph or held some mystery or happened to catch the light in an alluring way: half a baby doll thrown in a ditch around which vultures circled, a cotton-ginning operation sending up spumes of light-struck dust, a burned-down clapboard church. Barely touching the accelerator, I stuck my head out the win-dow, resting my chin on my wrist and watching the scenery crawl by with the calculating attitude of a cat measuring the distance from floor to coun-tertop. Occasionally I'd glance into the rearview mirror to discover a string of cars, their drivers anxiously craning their necks to see what the holdup was. I would continue this until it was too dark to photograph…”