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“I remember being a teenager and not having the skills to process overwhelming feelings. It was not something I’d ever been explicitly taught or had seen modeled in healthy ways.”
Relatable
— Aug 02, 2026 04:15PM
Relatable
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Zana
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‘“If what you see, or the voices you hear, make you turn away from us, trap you so we can’t reach you, then those are not our ancestors talking; those are not the gods of a people that existed as limbs of the same body, that would turn us into”—I look for the right words—“amputated parts.”’
Shit that's poetic
— Aug 06, 2026 07:07PM
Shit that's poetic
Zana
is 41% done
‘“...You can’t rush or pressure a boy into deciding what kind of man he will become.”
Papi’s words hang between us like punching bags I want to knock down. Does he think it was easier for Ma to adjust to the big changes back then? Does he think becoming a woman is somehow easier than becoming a man? Does he think that what Aldwin is going through is so simply explained as “becoming a man”?’
This is so frustrating
— Aug 03, 2026 09:44AM
Papi’s words hang between us like punching bags I want to knock down. Does he think it was easier for Ma to adjust to the big changes back then? Does he think becoming a woman is somehow easier than becoming a man? Does he think that what Aldwin is going through is so simply explained as “becoming a man”?’
This is so frustrating

