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Kayla L
is on page 169 of 312
“You don’t have to verbalize every thought. You don’t have to always give your opinion — especially when it’s not solicited. Just because there is a pause doesn’t mean you have to fill it. Just because everyone else is talking doesn’t mean you have to jump in. You can sit with the awkwardness. You can use the silence to your advantage. You can wait and see” pg. 167
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Kayla L
is on page 154 of 312
“Let the mind rule, not the body” pg. 153
I don’t agree. The mind/ego plays thoughts that are not true or realistic most of the time. The mind judges, critiques, etc. Your body/gut is just as important as your mind. Both are tools. Most of the time, your gut intuition is right while your mind is wrong. Moderately listen to your mind.
— Aug 02, 2026 06:29AM
I don’t agree. The mind/ego plays thoughts that are not true or realistic most of the time. The mind judges, critiques, etc. Your body/gut is just as important as your mind. Both are tools. Most of the time, your gut intuition is right while your mind is wrong. Moderately listen to your mind.
Kayla L
is on page 148 of 312
“We’re all going to mess up. We’ll show up to a life-changing opportunity unprepared. We’ll fall off our diet or our sobriety. We’ll lose our temper and embarrass ourselves. We’ll make mistakes. We’ll be beaten. That’s the thing about discipline: it never fails us, but sometimes we fail it” pg. 140
— Jul 30, 2026 04:43PM
Kayla L
is on page 123 of 312
“The Stoics remind us: we can’t abandon a pursuit because we despair of perfecting it. Not trying because we’re not sure you can win, you’re not sure whether everyone will love it, there’s a word for that too: cowardice.” pg. 133
— Jul 20, 2026 10:04AM
Kayla L
is on page 123 of 312
“In a world of distraction, focusing is a superpower. People say they’re focused but then… their phone pings, they get distracted, they get tired, they try to multitask, they don’t actually have the discipline to truly lock into something”
— Jul 19, 2026 05:03AM
Kayla L
is on page 116 of 312
“We know that between every stimulus and it’s response, every piece of information and our decision, there is space. It is a brief space, to be sure, but one with room enough to insert our philosophy. Will we use it? Use it to think, use it to examine, use it to wait for more information? Or will we give into first impressions, to harmful instincts, and old patterns?” Pg. 113
— Jul 15, 2026 05:28AM
Kayla L
is on page 111 of 312
“True self-control means moderation not just in what we do, but also how we think, how we feel, how we comport ourselves in a world of chaos and confusion. If anything, these traits matter more” pg. 95
“A weak mind must be constantly entertained and stimulated. A strong mind can occupy itself and, more importantly, be still and vigilant in moments that demand it” pg. 104
— Jul 14, 2026 04:15PM
“A weak mind must be constantly entertained and stimulated. A strong mind can occupy itself and, more importantly, be still and vigilant in moments that demand it” pg. 104

