3atiyeh’s Reviews > If Love Could Think: Using Your Mind to Guide Your Heart > Status Update

if we want to say good-bye to relationships where love equals sex and hello to relationships where love is greater than sex, we must first desexualize our emotional conflicts.

(1) get a life and stop focusing so much on your partner; (2) appreciate what your partner has to offer, not what he doesn’t; and (3) notice his growth, which will usually come in parallel to yours.