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What's right for us isn't a harsh declaration, it isn't something we have to force or wonder about for too long, It isn't something that leaves us looking for signs, it doesn't require us to poll our friends to gather their opinions. It doesn't leave us questioning, grieving, self-doubting. It doesn't put us on hold. It doesn't feel as though we have to grab it before it is gone, but rather, that it will always be ..

Growth is hard.

What this means is that we will remain what we have always been unless we consciously choose to become something else. Sure, everyone evolves and adapts over time, but if you aren't intentional about it, you'll end up the product of who and what is around you as opposed to an authentic expression of who you really are.